Wouldn’t it be great…

    I used to be a very good focuser. True, I focused on the wrong thing, but still I was a very good focuser. By default, we focus on …

Creating a heart map

  I thought I had worked through being bullied, I did, until last week. I was bullied between the ages of 8 and 11. The low point: being thrown at …

A fresh start

    Today, I am turning 41. Again it has been an amazing year, full of leaps and shifts, and so very different than I imagined it to be. Somehow, …

Staring at my garden

    If you have ever taken a meditation class, you probably will have heard the instructor say that you should picture your thoughts as clouds that float in and …

Mind the gap!

      I have been wanting to use this title for a long time. If you have ever been to London and taken the subway, you will have heard …

We’re going on a bear hunt

    “We’re going on a bear hunt, We’re going to catch a big one, What a beautiful day, We’re not scared. Oh oh! A cave, A narrow, gloomy cave. …

Shame won’t kill me

Over the years, I have become very good at dodging work-related questions. The subject is a painful reminder that I am a big fat failure. I have struggled with work …